{Pregnancy Hormones Ain't nobody got time fa dat!}

So, I never realized how cray cray pregnancy could make one feel. It's definitely a roller coaster of emotions, but it will all be worth it in the end once the baby is here. I owe Zack a big present for dealing with me the past 22 weeks, and for the next 18!!

Speaking of 22, we're 22 weeks along!

This week the baby is the size of a spaghetti squash.

Total weight gain: I've been retaining lots of water the past few weeks, but my overall weight gain is 11 lbs.
Maternity clothes: I bought a few more pairs of pants which I'm loving. I think I can get away with most of my tops. I also purchased a Bella Band - which has been amazing.
Stretch marks: None yet, I'm staying heavily moisturized, and I started making my own soap to reduce exposure to chemicals that may dry out skin.
*My soap recipe is listed below.
Movement: Lots and lots of movement. It's so special, and I love feeling every little kick and flutter.
Belly button in or out: It's in a weird position - not totally in and not out - it looks wild!
Looking forward to: My next OB appointment - scheduled for May 2.
Best Moment: Zack and I started a tradition this week. Every night one of us has to pick a song to sing to the baby, the other person can not judge or change the song choice and we have to sing the song in it's entirety from start to finish. So far, we've sung the following:

I knew I loved you before I met you - Savage Garden - Zack's choice (no judgment -ha!)

Mirrors - Justin Timberlake - my choice

Home - Michael Buble and Blake Shelton duet  - Zack's choice

I think we're going to sing Home by Phillip Phillips tonight - my choice

We didn't get to complete a full week due to Zack's on-call schedule, but I'll post the songs we sing as we go through rest of pregnancy. It's pretty funny because both of us are terrible singers, but its good for the baby to hear our voice, and I'm sure he/she doesn't mind.  Baby Bruce really enjoyed the music in church today - especially How Great Thou Art - there was lots of "praise kicking" during that song :)



*Homemade Soap Recipe:

16 ounces of glycerin (glycerin is a great soap base. Its also an excellent skin moisturizer, promotes skin elasticity and promotes skin regeneration for any bruising or swelling of the skin. It's also best for people with sensitive skin and babies/children.)
1/2 cup oatmeal (I use Quaker oats)
2 tablespoons local honey
a few drop of your favorite essential oil (I use lavender)

Melt glycerin on low heat setting- don't stir too often or the soap will become waxy. It take about 10-15 minutes to melt on the stove.

Once the soap is melted, stir in honey and essential oil.

Stir in oatmeal. Because of the weight of the oatmeal, it will sink. Wait a few minutes for the oatmeal to become suspended before pouring into a soap mold or pan. I prefer to use a soap mold (my mom gave me a set of oval and square molds that work really well - you can purchase a soap mold at a local craft store).

Let the soap sit out over night before removing from the mold.

After 24 hours, remove the soap, wrap individually with either craft paper or cling wrap, and store in a cool, dry place. Enjoy it, and share with your friends and family!

{RIP EKL}

Yesterday marked the official closing of Baton Rouge's only charity hospital system - Earl K. Long {lovingly referred to as EKL, aka. "the earl"}.

EKL means a lot of things to a long list of people including former patients, prisoners, medical staff, residents and the Baton Rouge community. Zack has made this hospital a second home (sometimes spending more time there than at home - all for good reason) over the past 3 years. He always came back with the most entertaining stories, but my favorite EKL story is OUR story.

In 2009, Zack was in his 4th year of med school at LSU New Orleans. As part of his med school requirements, he was to spend most of his 4th year rotating though different residency programs as an Acting Intern (AI). During this time he and I (through a series of events - another story for another day, let's just say we wouldn't be married if Zack hadn't made a seemingly offensive comment and I hadn't chosen to "put him on blast" about it) had been having back and forth communication.

In October 2009, lucky for me, Zack did an AI medicine month at EKL. Lucky for me again, while he was in BR we also decided to have coffee at one of my favorite places.

Coffee Call on College, Dr. 

We really hit it off and had an ease of communication that I rarely find with anyone else. We spent the rest of his month in BR hanging out as friends when we were available and getting to know each other. He moved away for a few months, and all the while, we kept up communication, met a halfway points, and continued to develop an awesome friendship. During this time Zack had been interviewing basically all over the country for a residency. In my mind I had psyched myself up  to believe that I would be road tripping to visit my friend, who was more than a friend, in Jacksonville, Birmingham or Rochester.

In March 2013, we went to Match Day - I refer to it as one of the best days ever. I'm typically not a person who focuses on the importance of days, but Match Day was one of those pivotal days I now use to measure life before and after. It was the day that sealed our relationship and allowed us to live out the rest of our lives.

Match Day is the day 4th year medical students find out where they're going to residency training for the next 3+ years. Having never participated in a ceremony like this before, I found it quite interesting. Basically, we were in a room full of family and friends of everyone in Zack's graduating class, and one by one (it's so torturous) each med student was called up and handed an envelope. Inside the envelop is the name of the place where the student will go to residency (there's a tedious process leading up to this, but I'll spare the details).

Never in all of humanity has anyone ever been more excited to hear the words "I'm going to Baton Rouge, I'm going to Earl K. Long" than me! When Zack opened his envelope, I felt like the kid on Christmas Story who finally got the Red Ryder BB Gun.

After Match Day, our relationship kicked into high gear, and we went from "more than friend, friends" to dating to engaged a lightening speed - looking back it was very fast, but when you know, you know. My husband in all his nostalgia asked me to marry him after we ate beignets at the Coffee Call - the spot of our first "meet up." How cute, and not predictable - in fact I had my hair in a messy bun, nasty old shorts on and no make up, but the most beautiful ring on my finger and the most handsome man in my life.

A year to the date past Match Day (+/- a few days) we were married, and settled into life together.
Then one day Zack said "why don't we have a baby." My first response was "because we're not baby people." Followed by "we barely have time for things we need to do now" Followed by "you're a Resident and I'm a young professional = we're poor- Ha!"   After some coercing, we decided to go with it and started "trying." After about 8-10 months of "trying" we decided to put the idea on hold and focus on other goals. Plus we have the cutest little dog, Pierre, our daschund terrier who purposed himself as our pet/child.

My mom always told me, "when you least expect things, that's when things happen." Well, that statement came true. I'm not sure if the holiday cheer of the EKL Christmas party made magic happen, but about 3 weeks after that party we found out we were pregnant.

And here we are now...

Without the LSU/Baton Rouge IM residency program, who knows where Zack and I would be now.  We've never been happier or luckier, and can't wait spend the next 1, 5, 10, 20, 50, 80 years continuing to write this story.

Sorry for the long post, but I want to remember this to be able to share with our baby and I forget things easily.

{RIP EKL, "the earl", "the 2 tin cans",  and the setting for our story}

{hallelujah, we're halfway!}

This week, we're halfway through pregnancy. We've made it 20 weeks!  Baby Bruce made it halfway!

We had our 2nd trimester ultrasound, and he/she is looking BEAUTIFUL. Zack was able to get the afternoon off to see our baby, and even the Grandma's were able to take a peak at their future grand baby.

We also started working on the spare bedroom. For the last 2 years this room has been a junk room filled with things we didn't really want to get rid of yet didn't really have a purpose. Finally, this room has a purpose, and it will become the baby's room.

We decided to go with a light beige for the room. Since we're not finding out baby's gender, it's the easiest color to accessorize around. Most of our house is painted in deep, rich colors, so choosing beige was out of my comfort zone.

Zack did most of the painting because he's super protective about me being around smells, chemicals, etc. I think he's suffering from a post painting hangover, and prays that we don't ever paint another room in this house!

 

{Phase I - going from dark tan to a very light beige}

 

{Phase II - first coat}

 

{Phase III - second coat's done!}

 

There will be a Phase IV because we need to do trim work, my favorite!

 

Making Progress:

 

How far along: 20 weeks and 6 days
Total Weight gain: 10 lbs
Movement: YES!!!! The movements are becoming more and more frequent. We have a kicker who also likes to party all night.
Belly: I still look like I ate too many carbs, but it's definitely starting to pop. I'm in the awkward phase, and I'm ready for the belly to pop to avoid all the "oh, you're pregnant - I thought you looked bigger" ha!
Looking forward to: Baby hiccups
Cravings: Zack and I have been trying to eat clean, but I gave in last night. My supper consisted of On the Borders chips and salsa, watermelon and a cup of cookies and cream ice cream.